If I am a Malaysian

By Fang Zhi Yuan

There are a few letters to the Malaysian media lately from Malaysian PRs and Singapore citizens whose parents are Malaysians about the ugly side of Singapore which has sparked a furore amongst Singaporeans who are indignified by the “ingratitude” shown by their brethen across the causeway.

What if I am a Malaysian working in Singapore? How will I plot my future and that of my children? Will I take up the Singapore citizenship or continue being just a PR to enjoy the best of both worlds?

Let’s imagine I was born in a middle class Chinese family in Johor Bahru. My family is not exactly that rich, but pretty well off by ordinary Malaysian standards.

My father run a small family business, like the majority of the Chinese in Malaysia and I live in a terraced house on the outskirts of the city.

After finishing my primary education in Johor, I was sent packing to continue my secondary education in Singapore. I went through the Singapore education system till university where I graduated with a Bachelor degree in Engineering.

As a Malaysian with no National Service obligations, I entered the workforce two years earlier than my Singapore counterparts. Within 6 months of working, I was offered to take up Permanent Residency in Singapore which I gladly obliged.

Singapore has been good to me. It gave me an education, a job and a future, opportunities which I will never be able to get in Malaysia as a result of the racist bumiputra policy.

Two years later, I was invited to become a Singapore citizen which threw me into a dilemma as I will have to give up my Malaysian citizenship, not that I was particularly loyal to my country of birth.

Malaysia has always been close to my heart though the government does not treat the ethnic minorities particularly well.

My parents, relatives and friends are all in Malaysia. There is a kampung spirit and human touch which is absent in Singapore. Despite living here for a number of years, I do not feel a sense of belonging.

If I become a Singapore citizen, I will now have to contribute 20% of my monthly pay to the CPF which will effectively tie me down here in the future.

My children will naturally become Singapore citizens and my sons will be mandated to serve two years of National Service under the law.

Other than being entitled to slightly higher education and healthcare subsidies, becoming a citizen does not confer any additional advantages over a PR.

After much contemplation, I have decided to maintain the status quo. My children were born in Johor as Malaysian citizens. I plan to enrol them in a Singapore school. There is little doubt that the Singapore education system is far superior than that in Malaysia.

My children will be brought up enjoying the best of both worlds. Singapore schools are well recognized worldwide. It will be a springboard for them to further their education elsewhere. At the same time, my boy need not waste two years of his precious life to serve the Singapore army.

I will leave the decision whether to become Singapore citizens to my children. As for myself, I do not intend to retire in Singapore. Life is too tough and stressful here.

Being still a Malaysian citizen, I am entitled to a housing grant which I intend to use to purchase a bungalow in Johor as a retirement home which cost about RM$500,000, the price of a three-room HDB flat in Singapore.

Had I remained in Malaysia, I will probably not achieve so much in life. I am thankful to the Singapore government for giving me the opportunity to study and work in Singapore. However, I want the best for myself and my family and Singapore is not quite the place to set up home when there are greener pastures elsewhere.

I have done my part and contributed to the Singapore economy. I do not intend to work till the day I drop dead. I want to retire and spend time with my children and grandchildren without having to worry about healthcare expenses.

Should I forfeit my Malaysian citizenship and become a Singaporean or continue to make money here and retire in my hometown?

Over the years, many Malaysians have worked in Singapore and become Permanent Residents. What percentage of these PRs have taken up citizenship?

Given a choice, would you prefer to be born in Singapore as a citizen or as a PR born in Malaysia?

The above account is not entirely fictitious. It is adapted from the personal life of a relative who is in the top echelon of a statutory board. In spite of numerous invitations by the government to him to become a Singapore citizen, he has adamantly refused to do so.

The Singapore government makes no distinction between locals and foreigners. We welcome foreigners with open arms. They are given equal opportunities as locals to succeed in Singapore.

Unfortunately, our greatest selling point to foreign talents is also dissuading them from settling down here permanently. What additional advantages does being a citizen have over a PR?

I failed my last IPPT and has to go for remedial training thrice a week. Can you imagine the hassle and torture of reporting to Khatib Camp to run 2.4km after a long and hectic day? Due to my frequent travels, I have to apply for deferments often. There was once I forgot and I received a letter from SAF almost immediately threatening to charge me.

My relative, however, have no such concerns. He has zero NS obligations at all – no ICTs, RTs, mob-manning and whatsoever. He can concentrate fully on his work and career. He does not care a bit about local politics. His aim is simply to make money here. His son is born in Malaysia, but studying in Singapore. He need not worry about him having to go through NS when he grows up.

Foreigners flock to Singapore in search of a better life. If they are willing to turn their backs on their homeland and become Singapore citizens in the first place, how patriotic can they be? How many of these new citizens give up their pink ICs later?

J.F. Kennedy once said: “Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country.”

Most Singapore males have served 2 years of national service followed by over 10 years of reservist training. Are we getting a fair deal from our country?

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95 Responses to “If I am a Malaysian”

  • What the Fish:

    Would be a very interesting topic at the next elections but then again it may not happen since our opposition seems to lack the intellect and wisdom in choosing the areas to cross swords with the papaya gang

  • rvian:

    Very splendid writing! I am very certain many people can relate to what you have written, some readers may even be the very character that this ‘fictitious’ story is describing.

    Did you hear of the chatters in the coffee shops about performing NS. Ah Beng told Ah Meng that he used to be a very ‘On’ soldier once and Ah Beng replied that he had in the past took his national duties quite seriously.

    Things have changed somewhat. Ah Beng is a middle class white collar executive lingering somewhere in the middle class while Ah Meng is struggling to make sure he doesn’t lose his job as a store supervisor. Both are married and have two school going kids each.

    Then Ah Meng asked Ah Beng, “Buddy, do you have a feeling that we are training to protect others/talents/opportunists at our expense while they concentrate to build their career, improve their lives, build their wealth? I heard you mentioned the last time that your manager is from our neighbouring country?”

    Ah Beng sighed, “Yalor, we trained to keep our country safe so that their big bungalows, condos, landed properties will be safe. KNN, we trained like shit and at the end of the day return to my small HDB flat, and I still owe them two months installment you know? I should be smarter like you, apply for low cost rental flats but I cannot qualify leh.”

    …and their conversation continued till they finished their kopi-o…

    “Training to be soldiers,
    To fight for our land,
    Once in our life, few years of our time
    Have you ever wonder, why we must serve,
    Cos’ we love our land and want it to be free, to be free….

    echo echo echo…..

    fade….

  • BryanT:

    FZY, I agree with your train of thought about the logical decision that a foreigner would come to. The best of both worlds that comes with being a PR here coupled with the flexibility of NOT being a Singaporean, plus freedom from onerous obligations, is enticingly clear.

    However, I disagree on your point about patriotism and probably alluding to how we should be less welcoming to those who are “willing to turn their backs on their homeland and become Singapore citizens in the first place.” I doubt patriotism is a prime consideration for any one of us deciding on our place of abode. Our forebears from China and South Asia certainly didn’t.

    What the Fish, I agree with you that our opposition seems to lack the intellect and wisdom in choosing the areas to cross swords with the current government. Heaven forbid if they can even say the right things when they have found the correct areas to brandish their swords. Did you hear the recent ramblings from there about how Seelan Palay’s political video has been artistically “acclaimed”. A bit of clutching at straws to associate political videos with art. Some of us certainly had a good laugh over that sword-display.

    Ps. by the way, some of us sometimes use “what the fish” as an expletive. So it highly discomforting to call someone by this nomenclature. I would suggest one less prone to misunderstanding….

  • Wang:

    You are entitled to your opinion but you are factually wrong PR 2nd Generation are required to serve so your relative sons would need to serve unless they wish to skip and be on notice for life.

  • It really frustrates me that the government is saddling our Singapore males with NS and reservist training as well as yearly IPPT. In today’s competitive environment and I’m talking about the private sector, a moment’s delay can mean a make or break business deal. How many NSmen have lost opportunities in life and for what? A thank you note from MINDEF? Thanks but no thanks! This PR made a smart move as he was willing to move out of his comfort zone, he reaps the benefits of this move. What about us Singaporeans? What can we do? Move to JB, PR in Malaysia and instead live in a terrace/semi-detached/bungalow house over there? Ironic isn’t?

  • Onas:

    We have only skin-deep knowledge.

    Go read Alain Vandenborre’s “Proudly Singaporean, My Passport to a Challenging Future”.

    Buy it or get it from the library.

  • 胡説八道:

    I hate to be a Singaporean.
    S’pore is a place for tourist and not a place to stay.
    It’s a place for foreigners and not for the own citizens.
    生錯地方,
    地頭蛇被過江龍欺負!
    奈何!

  • A P:

    “Go read Alain Vandenborre’s Proudly Singaporean, My Passport to a Challenging Future”.”

    Times have changed

  • cy:

    its an arbitrage game that the PR played well. to reduce arbitrage, i suggest that GST should be exempted for singapore citizen.

  • singaporean:

    Singaporeans say “Ask not what you can do for the country but what your country can do for you”.

  • Unpatriotic Sinkee bcoz of PAP:

    For those PR who knows the game well between PR and citizenship, you made the right decision not to become a citizen. There is absolutely no difference being either one.

    FZY, maybe you could write about any PRs who have become citizen whether they have regretted making that decision.

    What about those Singaporean who emigrated and came back as a PR to work and enjoying themselves here? Any statistics on both the above? It could be interesting for a change to know the other side of the story.

  • Blackie:

    “i suggest that GST should be exempted for singapore citizen.”

    I suggest u travel and get to know the truth.

    I went to Turkey last year. I sat with the Turkish guide sipping coffee while my wife shopped.

    This guy spoke impeccable English and smoked like a chimney. He left Germany and came home and ended up as a free lance tourist guide. He had no choice. Unemployment is rampant in Turkey.

    He said nothing good abt the government. GST double digit, personal income tax, poor housing, etc., given that Turkey had a lot of mineral resources, land, etc.

    Well, travel, my brother and seek the truth not propaganda.

  • What the Hell:

    “Training to be soldiers,
    To fight for our land,
    Once in our life, few years of our time
    Have you ever wonder, why we must serve,
    Cos’ we love our land and want it to be free, to be free….

    When our land becomes finally free,
    We ourselves become not free
    Freedom of speech, etc are curtailed by dracular’s law
    One man is also an assembly against his law
    Want to make noise, to speakers’ corner go
    Make too much noises, either bankrupt or jail you go.

    And then foreigners can come in freely
    To take our jobs freely,
    To compete with us freely,
    To enjoy our education freely,
    To fxxk our girls freely,

    And become as free as can be
    More free than we
    Then they say “Thank you”,
    And fxxk off from you,
    When the time comes for them to retire.
    What do we defend really?

    For whom do we defend really
    To be free?
    Our land or ourselves?
    Or someone else?
    Is there more to tell?
    What the Hell?

  • shitTalent:

    2nd generation PR can renounce their PR ship forever.

    Then they don’t need to serve NS.

  • JohnnyKid:

    WP, can you do an expose on Ideal Accommodation? This company run by Chinese national Tang Yong was responsible for the Grangeford condo illegal subletting fiasco. Apparently this PR has been flouting our property rules since 2001 (see http://www.pearlbankapartments.com/IdealAccomodation.htm) and he has made a fortune for himself.

    It affects me greatly that:
    - he is profiting from the suffering of Singaporeans. Residents have to bear with the influx of illegal tenants. Singapore’s reputation has also been affected in the Grangeford condo case. The tenants mostly students and expats did not get back their deposits.

    - the authorities have not taken any punitive action against him throughout the years

    - his entire operations in Singapore is based on illegal subletting. He is breaking the law but allowed to remain a PR.

    Mostly importantly, the Singaporean way of life is taken for a ride. That is an honest day’s pay for a honest day’s work. Tang Yong must be laughing behind our backs.

  • Singapore Citizen:

    Ofcouse, If i have a choice, i would rather be a PR. As Citizen, it is sucks here.

  • To Wang,

    And it has happened!Remember that very recent infamous case where those Danish PR fockers went back to Denmark?They became Danish citizens and signed on for the Danish Army.

    Their parents?Still enjoying their PR in Singapore!

    PAP — Foreigners Action Party

  • A Malaysian:

    I can totally relate to your story!

    We get what lack in our own country from our neighbour – better money, better education, better job prospect, regional travelling job etc in just a straits away. We come home for the sense of belongings, family, friends and better food.

    Some people may see us as “running away from problems”, but tell me, how are we suppose to do to stop some brainless people from the government who made the comment to legalise bribery so the government servants are better paid to sustain the city life? Nonsense but trust me, it was indeed said and published.

  • Moonshine:

    The people who run the country lament that Singaporeans leave, that there is no sense of belonging, of loyalty.

    But how can you expect loyalty when YOU are the ones who formulate such a policy which encourages others to enter with open arms and punish those whom have been here all their lives?

  • Overseas Singaporean:

    You find SGP stressful, why do you still want to put your kids in a stressful education system?

    Surely there are other countries which can provide kids to enjoy learning instead of just getting a good grades?

  • Blackie:

    Unpatriotic Sinkee & Times have changed -

    “Go read Alain Vandenborre’s “Proudly Singaporean, My Passport to a Challenging Future.”

    Please do. 1st publiched 2003.

    This guy is a global Belgian talent who migrated here with his family. His contributions & of course an unbiased account from someone who make that momentous decision to change nationality after carful analysis of the world at large & Singapore.

    Principles don’t change, fren.

  • Anonymous:

    “My children will be brought up enjoying the best of both worlds. Singapore schools are well recognized worldwide. It will be a springboard for them to further their education elsewhere.”

    While Singapore’s education is well recognised worldwide, it is not “portable”. I realised this when I was planning to move overseas. We are still not considered a native english speaking country and our degress does not have equal standing with the commonwealth degress. Hence, if we are to work overseas, we will either be subjected to be on probation or redo a qualification that is recognised by the country.

    Many Singaporeans think that our certificates are good, yes, but only in Singapore. I know all these because I’ve moved out of Singapore last year.

  • After living several years in NZ, a Malaysian couple found jobs in Singapore, obtained Singapore PR and became my neighbour. Moving to Singapore at end 2006, they bought this semi-detached for S$1.29 million which was the lowest price ever dealt in the estate, and now, its worth appx S$2.10 million. Their three children returned for holiday but are still studying in Universities and year 12 in Christchurch where NZ govt provides free education. I was told that their 3 kids too have Singapore PR and will eventually find jobs here and work in Singapore too. None in their family needs to serve National Service, and the couple said they would make as much money as they can while they are here in Singapore but finally would withdraw all their money from Singapore, and would retire with full pensions in NZ.

  • Worst:

    What hurt most is this……

    As a Singaporean, you must fight and die for your country, but when you are in trouble does your country comes to your aid?

    There are so many cases of Singaporeans getting into trouble abroad but does our embassy help them at all? No, those good-for-nothing fellows in most of Singapore embassies abroad are not only good for nothing but would not even do anything to help. You can call them and they will tell you there is nothing they can do and would not even bother to send someone over to look into your situation. I do not care to point out all the cases but those who have lived abroad as long as I have would have come across many.

    Compared that to the US embassies, once a US citizen get into trouble, there will have someone look into your case immediately and even send someone over to come see you and see how they can help.

    Now, you know how it feels to be a Singaporean.

  • DingDong:

    It was such a celebration when I received the “release” letter from Mindef at age 40.

    As a Director in a small medium size foreign company with Asia HQ in S’pore, I give employment priority to all foreigners, even fresh graduates from Philippines, Indonesia, China who can stay in Singapore for up to one year while seeking emloyment.

    Singaporeans, sorry, no time for all your reservist non sense, business cannot wait.

  • anon:

    to Johnnykid

    that’s nothing. i know for a fact that there are lots of PRs who break law, and have even been INCARCERATED, and yet allowed to remain in this country.

    Singapore is that desperate for immigrants. just note this, expect crime rate to shoot up when the casinos open. foreigners and PRs, especially.

  • anon:

    You know what it means when the the government knows about the PR loophole and yet not doing anything about it.

    It is actually affirming to its citizens that Singapore is a place to make your fortune, not a home!!!

  • Low morale:

    How to convert Singapore Citizen to Singapore PR?

    I have my friend who is PRC. He got all the perks from our dear Singapore.

    1) 5 percent CPF.
    2) Sponsored study by NUS.
    3) After graduation result moderate – straightaway offered a job in NUS.
    4) Got high bonus and no pay cut and their pay is same as average singaporean – WHERE GOT LOW PAY?
    5) No need to serve NS.

    As for us?

    1) 20 percent CPF
    2) Pay our pocket money to study at high cost. Not enuff money borrow from bank with interest and worst borrow from parent cpf – have to pay interest!
    3) Result moderate – compete for job like hell and we have to lower the salaries in order to stay competitive.
    But Govt never know, we earn money is for survival – for our parent, for our kids and for our wife.
    4) Bonus? I never expect that but kenna pay cut and forced unpaid leave.
    5) Serve NS. PTI never noe we have stress in work and they said we take IPT is to siam RT so they must give them hard training. NB.

    Where is the diginity of true Singaporean!

  • Worst said: There are so many cases of Singaporeans getting into trouble abroad but does our embassy help them at all?

    Not entirely true, it reqally depends on WHO is in charge there. Those connected to the famiLEE sure big fcuk since they are untouchable, complain all you want they say.

    The embassy staff in Hong Kong is friendly and helpful, from my own experience when I renewed my passport there.

  • sperman:

    My family was almost going to be exactly like what the TS has shared with us…. Except that the whole family of us became Singapore Citizens… Back in 1990, the advantages of becoming citizens was quite tempting then…

    Anyway, to each to own… Singpore and Malaysia both good places to live in their own rights as pointed out by the TS….

    Someone here also pointed out the pointless fact regards the IPPT thingy which I do agree 90%, its all bull-shit…. Waste time, etc…. MAybe book-in at 600 too early I say… (fortunately I no kena RT b4), but I do emphaises its sheer waste of time doing RT so frequently..

  • Singapore is proud and has hanged so many foreign drugs offenders in Singapore. Thus, it would be difficult for Spores PM or Foreign Minister to request for leniency on the part of Sporean drug offenders committed overseas – thats understood. But for any other cases, so far, Spore Embassies abroad never bother to take action.

  • oppositionresident:

    “Unfortunately, our greatest selling point to foreign talents is also dissuading them from settling down here permanently. What additional advantages does being a citizen have over a PR?”

    It is quite obvious, to me at least, why there are no advantages being a citizen over PR. Because only economic advancement is welcomed by S’pore INC. This INC do not fear strikes of any kind, because it can replaced its workforce with PRs anytime, so citizens has no choice but to obediently keep quiet and slog. Sound like ‘prisoners’ or modern slaves?

  • The View:

    This is so true of so many foreigners that come to Singapore just for the education and then taking the education that Singapore has given them and fly to another nation for better education and better job because of Singapore’s good education system.
    And for the Singaporeans who wants the place in the uni or of any higher learning institutions, they are probably being left out as most places land up to this foreigners.

  • pui:

    Singapore is not a country. It’s an economy.

  • Fairplayplease:

    I RECALL having seen on a Foreign Affair website of Singapore Government. It warned explicitly that our embassies or diplomatic posts abroad will NOT lend money to Singapore in any distress overseas EVEN IF OUR FAMILY IN SINGAPORE CAN OFFSET THE SAME AMOUNT IMMEDIATELY IN SINGAPORE.

    My question is – what if Singaporeans doing business abroad got robbed say in China and needs some money to stay in hotel whilst recovering from his/her unfortunate situation?. Singaporeans with this kind of trouble through no fault of his or her cannot even sleep in the railway station or bus-stop without breaking Chinese law and compounding his/her woes.

    If the Government’s official position is to abandoned its distressed citizens abroad, how much loyalty in times of wartime crisis here for Singaporeans abroad to return and fight for this country survival???

    So much for “standing up for Singapore!” It is a one-way loyalty hoax.

  • Fairplayplease:

    Blackie.. I agreed with you fully that Singaporeans should NOT be exempted from GST. The world has headed that way, taxing consumer and lowering corporate taxes – without GST, we cannot compete internationally and survive as a nation. I am persuaded of that.

    Having said that, your Turkish trip while informative for you is NOT a justifiable comparison. Turkish migrants in Germany, in all likelihood, would be treated like “unwanted” baggage of spare use. The hard times in Turkey is not exceptional…just look at all moslem countries around the world since the last century – any economic miracles other than Arabs sitting on puddles of oil – there is a lot of impoverishment everywhere but little enterprise saved of our Malaysian friends next door?

    I went to Meizhou in so-called prosperous Pearl River delta in Guangdong Province just 2 years ago. In the countryside, I saw a number of “residential accomodation” which were in all complete reality abandoned pig-stys, a thin shed overhead and if it rains day or night, the occupants be soaking wet. Cooking is just a few stones piled up nearby and water supply for washing and drinking is fish ponds with thick grassy algae in them.

    Are we measuring the expectation of Singaporeans and our future to these parameters of hope and dreams for the next generation?

    If we are, then the dialoque in this blog is unnecessary and idle of life meanings, don’t you agree, respectfully??

  • TP:

    I’m a Singaporean with a partner (who’s a Malaysian and also a Singapore PR) and i can assure you – she has the better deal between the both of us.

    Shamefully, i have advised her NEVER, NEVER to convert to Singapore citizenship as there are absolutely NO benefits in doing ~ it just plainly does not make sense and its not something someone in their sane mind will do.

    We will start a family here and enjoy all the economic benefits; but we will never set out roots here — i will bring up my family here, but will retire in Malaysia. My spouse being a Malaysian, is eligible to generous subsidies from Malaysia, we have properties there as well ~ pace of life is slower both (thanks for forex) our cash wealth is much higher… No issues with healthcare ‘cos a short drive would put us within the healtcare radar of Singapore. Family-wise, not too much of an issue ~ with the current state of events and if this is the directions of things to come ~ my children will most prob leave this country and seek their fortunes elsewhere, hence no real loss for me regardless of where i reside (Singapore or Malaysia)… i can also rent out my place in Singapore and enjoy my RETIREMENT in malaysia.

  • Old Retiree:

    FZY asked the right question.. Are we getting a fair deal from our country?
    The answer is yes and no. Obvously and big Yes for the top 5% of the population. These are people who are rich, smart and the educated (e.g. scholars and people with strings of degrees)The system here reward those who are highly educated/qualified extremely well. I would say for 85% of rest comprising the upper middle and middle class people, the answer would be Yes and No. My guess is the upper middle class will say they have a fair deal. For the lower middle class majority would be no. For the bottom 10%, my guess is a definate no. Because, FTs and FWs here are affecting their livelihood.

  • Donald:

    FTs or Mas Selamats.

    The choice is yours.

  • Fairplayplease:

    The title of this thought-provoking thread is “If I am a Malaysian” Well I am NOT. I am Anak Singapura. If one recalls recently, MM still harbour thoughts that we be united as part of Malaysia but only if it is a secular country based on meritocracy in all institutions of Government. I totally agree.MM must have his compelling reasons in deep reflective thoughts. My own judgement is that Malaysia definitely has a longevity of future which we may be lacking. It is undeniable reality that everything we eat or use comes from the land – via agriculture or mining. We have only 700 km, public housing, infrastructure, industry and natural reserves takes up virtually all of that – even with decades of reclamation. Since we have no land for agriculture or mining or territorial seas for fishing and maybe petroleum and gas extraction, how do you survive on?? Trade, manufacturing and services. Trade DOES NOT NECESSARILY pass through Singapore. Manufacturing and services – the Chinese and Indians can do better. Staying on our own is pride but tougher as day goes by. Asean is not exactly EU depth of economic integration.

    Malaysians, for all its inadequacies now, may offer a better future for their generations, I suspect unless Singapore goes very fast on the global stage.

  • Fairplayplease said: I RECALL having seen on a Foreign Affair website of Singapore Government. It warned explicitly that our embassies or diplomatic posts abroad will NOT lend money to Singapore in any distress overseas EVEN IF OUR FAMILY IN SINGAPORE CAN OFFSET THE SAME AMOUNT IMMEDIATELY IN SINGAPORE.

    This is very true. However, they WONT EVEN pay for your transport back to SIngapore if you drop dead anywhere in the world. What they normally do is to arrange to infomr your immediately family members, thats all.

    If kenna any legal problem, say kenna arrested, they will assign a lawyer but the lawyer will advise you to PG. :)

  • Both, Singapore citizens and Singapore PRs know Singapore’s present and future situation very well. While PRs keep quiet and enjoy the benefits, Singapore citizens complain day-in and day-out. Singapore PRs also hold other countrys PRs and invested their wealth overseas for their future needs whereas Singapore citizens too afraid to move abroad and also fear failures. Finally when something happen, PRs can find another place to go while Singapore citizens become sitting duck.

  • Fairplayplease:

    Xisd Tay,

    So is that how they “ENCOURAGE” young Singapore to venture out abroad to build “Enterprise Singapore International”?? There is an article in Australian media today that a mining giant called Rio Tinto whose China-based Australian executive were detained on some legal charge of alleged “spying” of Chinese state secrets. It is a bit of a “cloak-and-dagger” stuff in children story book but this is real.

    Australian Government, not just Rio Tinto stepped in, and demanded access and various consular rights to assist their citizen. I cannot imagine Singaporeans getting into commercial disputes and ended up with some fabricated charges of spying on unspecified or vaguely impossible of comprehension “state secrets” (when all it dealt with is commercial matters) and our diplomats in China says….” go and burying your life in some graves…we won’t be attending your funeral”

    We are spending money on diplomats when we should have just hired a post office box number there just to mark our “physical” (if symbolic) presence, don’t you agree.

    When Singapore nationals abroad have such a low regard of their own Government’s overseas diplomatic mission… how easy and comfortable do you think foreign sovereigns and their nationals would bully us in commercial matters by blackmailing us into submission on ‘fictional political charges” of crimes to get their way??.

    What happen to “stand up for Singapore” ( some singaporeans cynically sing this as count money Singapore)? Is this only applicable within the safety of our 700 plus sq. km only. Outside that, our assessed international standing does NOT even allow us the right to fart our commercial (and indirectly national) interest of Enterprise Singapore International??

    This hypocrisy really sucks huh?

  • I have so many Malaysian friends and colleagues, all holding Singapore PRs working in the banking and finance sector. So far, in the last 20 over years, none of them have converted their PRs to become Singapore Citizens. And their children are still holding PRs too. We, Singaporean and our children do National Service (my son completed 30 months NSF).

  • In the 80s and early 90s, I felt proud to tell everyone I met when travelling abroad that I am a Singaporean. However, things have certainly changed these days, I feel very different and am now afraid to say I am a Singaporean when asked by someone abroad. Maybe due to Singapore’s system, its progress and its achievement have deteriorated somehow in recent years.

  • A P:

    “FTs or Mas Selamats.”

    Mas Selamats, because he/they want to get out of Singapore

  • Fairplayplease said: Australian Government, not just Rio Tinto stepped in, and demanded access and various consular rights to assist their citizen. I cannot imagine Singaporeans getting into commercial disputes and ended up with some fabricated charges of spying on unspecified or vaguely impossible of comprehension “state secrets” (when all it dealt with is commercial matters) and our diplomats in China says….” go and burying your life in some graves…we won’t be attending your funeral”

    Absolutely possible. Remember the Singaporean journalist being arrested by the Chinese Government for alleged spying? Remember what happened?

  • Let me refresh:

    ***
    Ching, a correspondent for Singapore’s Straits Times, was detained April 22 in the southern Chinese city of Guangzhou after obtaining what he believed to be a manuscript of a book about the late leader Zhao Ziyang, the Associated Press reported, citing an interview with Ching’s wife, Mary Lau.

    The 57-year-old was jailed for five years in August 2006 for alleged spying for Taiwan. An appeal in November 2006 was rejected by the Beijing

    Higher People’s Court despite international protests over Ching’s arrest and a rejection of the charges by Ching’s family and employer.

    ***

    Hate to say this but when Singaporean kenna arrested and if he works for the gahment, ie: Shitty Times this incident, Shitty Times went on record:

    Ching’s employer, Singapore Press Holdings Ltd., said today it was “shocked” by the accusation and praised the journalist for his “professionalism.”

    So you see, those in the SPH are all related to the system and doing all sort of nonsencse overseas and locally.

    If he had been a lesser mortal, Sinkapore embassy would have said: Too Bad, So Sad, Its Like That. :)

  • laopokcar:

    Seriously any way to go from citizen to PR?

    To sum it all, Singapore is a house not a home.

  • SK:

    As a Singaporean, you should be loyal to your own country. Government can chnage, foreigner can come and go. You are still Singaporean, the keeper of Singapore.

    Please do not confuse creature comfort with citizenship. You can leave Singapore to seek for greener pasture,even you make it big outside Singapore, will you feel “settle”. Sinapore is where your heart and soul reside.

    Many Malaysian make up their mond to become citizen due to many reasons. There are many Malaysian return to settle in Malaysia because they believe they can not leave their under privilege relatives and friends to fend for themselves in Malaysia.

  • The Happy Singaporean:

    Fang Zhi Yuan,

    There is such a thing as an achiever and the left behind and you are one of the later. I felt sorry for you. You must have principle and that is a guiding life in life. I have gone through life and can tell you that it is true. Your relative is also selfish and did not shoulder the responsibility. Such people take the cream and leave the crust behind. I always pass my IPPT and ICT/mobilization are just part of the game and sharpen management skills along the way. Be positive.

  • Fairplayplease:

    SU HK, you said you got a lot of Malaysian friends working in banking and finance sector for 20 years ( a lucrative sector until recently at least) but despite the obvious enrichment of career and fortune, NONE OF THESE PRs have taken up citizenship.

    It can’t be all instances of family root reasons, and all factors considered of Singapore relative advancement as compared to Malaysia, IS IT NOT TELLING THAT SOMETHING IS BOTHERING THEM SUFFICIENTLY DISTURBING OF CONCERN SUCH AS TO BE UNABLE TO COMMIT ON PAPER A LIFE THAT IS ALREADY DEEPLY IMPLANTED HERE?

    These are no simpleton LOSERS but WINNERS in the economic race against native born. They have no return option in Malaysia – BECAUSE THEIR CHILDREN WOULD NOT HAVE MALAY LINGUISTIC OR CULTURAL SKILLS TO SURVIVE AND PROSPER THERE, if they are unhappy here. They might be thinking of Canada, USA or Australia for next migration destination leaving Singaporeans behind to FEND FOR THIS COUNTRY’S FUTURE. It would be interesting to know if these uncommitted Malaysian nationals working here you spoke of carry Malaysian passport or Singapore’s.

    I have known many Malaysian friends previously working here long time ago but have since migrated to Australia. They don’t switch passport because they have aged or aging parents -they want the flexibility of returning to Malaysia in an emergency and stay longer in Malaysia if they return for vacation.

    Their Australian-born children has no affiliation or thoughts of interest in Malaysia – eating McDonalds for breakfast, cheese bread rolls in Australia for lunch etc. Their grown kids are like Aussies. Some tell me that their children travel on AUSTRALIAN PASSPORTS – better support from Australian embassies if they found themselves in trapped circumstances. Of course, there is no compulsory military service in Australia unlike Singapore. Their kids don’t speak Malay and know that they can’t possibly look for economic opportunity in Malaysia under any circumstances.

    I guess what I am saying is that – if a whole of apparently very successful Malaysian PRs here will not formalise their status to citizenship after so long – it must be that AFTER SO LONG THEY ARE STILL ASSESSING THE SECURITY IN AND THE FUTURE OF THIS COUNTRY.

    Why are we still so politically complacent??? Surely it must be a case of we are ALL RIGHT and doing right thing (i.e. they are wrong of doubts) OR THEY ARE ALL RIGHT and we are ALL WRONG ( i.e. we a mob of dumb caterpillars surviving in exposed environment waiting for a PASSAGE OF TIME and a passing bird to take us for its dinner).

    It can’t be both…or can’t it???

  • alibaba:

    Do you guys think Taiwan is a good place to emigrate to for the Chinese?

  • alibaba:

    How about Vancouver and Jakarta too?

  • alibaba, if you have tons of cash, Swiss, Canada or USA looks good.

    If you have good cash and needs a society thats resembling of one your own (ie: if you are chinese), then China is a fitting choice.

    I am in Hong Kong but I do a lot of travel to mainland China and sometimes live there for months. Simply put, I have apartment in Hong Kong and China.

    Unlike Hong Kong, China DO NOT OPENLY allow anyone to “immigrate” into China but off the record, its LEGALLY not difficult if you know how. Its allowed for in their laws but its subjective as there is no fixed criteria as to who can or cannot be accepted.

    Anyone reading this please DO NOT start an arguement or challenge me to produce proof that China accepts foreign nationals into their country as their own, ie: having China Citizenship cause one Sinkaporeans attained Chinese Citizenship in China (whom I know back in Sinkapore) thru LEGAL means and its NOT ASYLUM. He apartment is just a few kilmetres from mine, in China that it.

    Now time to release thr cat out of the bag, would you believe it if I tell you (jokingly) that some of the legal professionals (ex-sinkapore lawyers) who went AWOL are in China living like an emperor? I did in my dreams, bumb into a 2 of them, one being the record holder :)

  • mack:

    * i go up the train one quarter of them are foreign labour.
    * i go to harry’s at boat quay three quarters are expatriates.
    * i walk ard my fren’s nice condo half of tenants are foreign talents.
    i look at my homeland i wondered if i am in the wrong place.

  • SK said: As a Singaporean, you should be loyal to your own country. Government can chnage, foreigner can come and go. You are still Singaporean, the keeper of Singapore.

    I am not sure about that, it appears that the famiLEE are the owner and keeper of Sinkapore, not Sinkaporeans themselves.

    But then, who to blame bbut they themselves? They are too lazy, afraid and naive to give that golden vote to the famiLEE, they asked for it.

  • mack said: i look at my homeland i wondered if i am in the wrong place.

    Well said mack, this is the trend now and will continue to get worst if nothing is done to prevent it.

    The famiLEE knows that local Sinkaporeans are getting smarter and harder to manage. The older generation of SInkaporeans famiLEE worshippers are getting old and will soon go 6 feet under.

    The younger generation of Sinkaporeans are not easilly taken in by the famiLEE’s wayang than the older generation. They wanted transparency and accountability which the famiLEE cannot give due to the tons of dust under teh carpet.

    The younger generation of Sinkaporeans are no longer just satisfied with having a roof over the head, meals on the table and school to go to. They want a better future for their children and grand children, they want a better Sinkapore, a free Sinkapore where everyone is FREE as allowed by the constitution, something which the famiLEE cannot allow.

    So, in order to maintain grip on power, the famiLEE have to import “talents” from China, India, Pakistan to fill the gap left behind by those who left. These imports come from a less developed country and will be contended with just meals, roof and school, compared to local Sinkaporeans.

    For the purpose of discussion, citizens in China seldom see sky scrappers higher than 6 stories. Most live in urban areas and work their arse off putting food on the table. So when they are allowed to be imported into Sinkapore, most will appreciate the false “developed country” wayang and be wayang into being PR or citizens.

    But look deeper and make a comparison if I may, on the whole, China is a better place to live in compared to Sinkapore at present. Although the chinamen have no say in who is PM, SM, MM (if there’s one), they live freely, doing the things they want, saying the things they want and buying the things they want.

    There is no worry that the CPF rates might rise, that they don’t get to see their monies , that the police will ask them to move on, afraid to gather in public places, get fined and fined, pay and pay.

    Basically, they are more free to do the things they want, compared to Sinkapore. I could go on and on and on making such comparison to Hong Kong but then it would bore all of you.

    For those who have been to Hong Kong, China, USA and some other countries, you would know what I mean with regards to FREEDOM, which is what all human beings should treasure and value.

  • Fairplayplease said: Why are we still so politically complacent??? Surely it must be a case of we are ALL RIGHT and doing right thing (i.e. they are wrong of doubts) OR THEY ARE ALL RIGHT and we are ALL WRONG ( i.e. we a mob of dumb caterpillars surviving in exposed environment waiting for a PASSAGE OF TIME and a passing bird to take us for its dinner).

    To be a good Sinkaporeans, do remember the following golden rule of PaPies with regard to accountability:

    1. The PaPies and famiLEE are NEVER wrong and cannot be wrong.
    2. If ever they are wrong, then rules #1 above applies.
    3. If there’s a mistake made, it was an honest mistake.
    4. If you make too much noise against the mistake made by the PaPies, the famiLEE dogs will “encourage” you tp move on or face jail.

  • Fairplayplease:

    Xisd Tay, I have to take off my hat to you. You dared to buy an apartment in China!! Maybe, you been around there long enough and knows the rope.

    I lived recently in an apartment for months near Jingshajiang netro station on line 2, the next station after Zhongsan Kong Yuan metro station in Shanghai. It is a nice comfortable good sized one well furnished bedroom with living room area separate kitchen and bathroom with spa inside. The Shanghainese owner now works for a US multi-national entity and he is based in Suzhou. He drops in every quarterly to collect rent and got sick of travelling just to do that when I am also often not available. He offered to sell me for rmb 700K – good value I thought for location ( 2 minutes walk from Jinshajiang metro station (one station from Zhongsan Kong Yuan – itself a major interchange to anywhere in Shanghai), building in good condition, and the apartment internally pretty well renovated. I was paying 3k rmb per month for rent already, translated to 5% yield for him.

    I thought it over for weeks and decided I DARE NOT. Why? Because I fear the title transfer legal paper work by Chinese lawyers may be sloppy, incomplete and maybe even corrupted behind my back. In China, you must know a lot of things are NOT what it seems – murky in details. The other factor I considered is what if I sell it sometimes in the future, how can I bring my money out of China when rmb is non-convertible to US or Singapore dollars and I CANNOT LEGALLY BRING OUT MORE THAN 20,000 RMB IN CASH via the airport.

    Off course, having my own in Shanghai means that when I travel there, I won’t have to stay in hotel – no privacy besides very costly if you stay there for long.

  • Benny Chua:

    All is said and done, I still give my vote to the PAP.

    We have eyes to see around the dog-eat-dog world. 45 GOOD years if not for the global meltdown. From a resourcesless, tiny 600 sq km island into a FIRST WORLD metropolis.

    I know for sure those who write to the contrary are not Singaporeans or perhaps anti-PAP politicians who have an axe to grind and want to sink Singapore (why not? since they are already SUNK!).

    No way, brother! Singaporeans AT LARGE ain’t stupid. They have EYES to see around.

  • A P:

    “No way, brother! Singaporeans AT LARGE ain’t stupid. They have EYES to see around.”

    Good. Time to do away with GRC system

  • Fairplayplease:

    My Shanghai landlord once told me this – the emperor’s throne is ROTATIONAL – GOOD TIMES AND GOOD FORTUNE DOES NOT LAST FOREVER and civilisations once fallen may never come back for centuries, if ever. His way of thinking to me is, pleasure is short but pain/misery is lasting. History does not walk backward.

    Anyone disagreeing?

  • Fairplayplease, I have been in China and Hong Kong for a decade, so I can safely say I am aware of how the chinese function. You just have to be very careful anbd scrutinise every piece of paper you are going to sign.

    My apartment is not as expensive as yours, I paid around 450k RMB for a 2 bedroom apartment in Wuhan. Its within an hour to the airport, so no hussle there when I fly from ShenZhen when visiting from Hong Kong.

    The apartment was bought in cash and directly from the developer, upon completion of course. All paperwork was done by the developer and its agent and I paid only down payment and balance upon completion of all paperwork.

    I have never been to ShangHai but have plans to go there maybe this winter for holiday.

    And my reason for the apartment is the same as yours, which I quote: Off course, having my own in Shanghai means that when I travel there, I won’t have to stay in hotel – no privacy besides very costly if you stay there for long.

    I am usually 6 months in Hong Kong, 6 months in China, the colder days in Hong Kong, of course. So its logical that I buy an apartment instead of staying in a hotel for 6 months. :)

  • EKP:

    All I can say after reading comments of PR as to Citizenship and stuck with NS if blueblood SINGAPOREAN.PR may seem to enjoy the best of both worlds but when the chips are down Singaporeans still come up tops.Why?? know your rights.seek your MPs CCCs and govt.Kaypos. You will be surprised @ what advise they can dispense to a blueblood Singaporean.Not true??
    Try It.

  • Agape Xue:

    To walk the fire
    Wednesday, 6 August 2008, 9:03 pm | 2,356 views
    Benjamin Cheah / Senior Writer

    It goes against ethical principles of reciprocity to demand so much from servicemen, and giving so little in return — especially since many servicemen would not willingly serve their country in the military

    The burden of the Full-time National Serviceman is a heavy one. Usually called up against his will, he is thrown head-first into a new, unfriendly world, with neither rule book nor directions, separated from his loved ones, loses two years of work experience and education to his female and foreign peers.

    He is expected to fight, kill and die for his country when deemed adequately trained — a country that he may not even acknowledge.

    When he completes his service, he is ejected into the civilian world two years older, and armed with mainly irrelevant skills, much of his equipment, a Certificate of Service, the recognition to be called up again for In-Camp Training (ICT) until he has fully discharged his National Service liability at the age of 40 or 50 – and a duty to take up arms if needed. For all the personal hardships incurred, one would expect, even demand, that the NSF is adequately compensated.

    But he is not.

    Disadvantaged as a serviceman

    The Full-time National Serviceman is severely disadvantaged compared to his female and foreign peers. The NSF spends two years of his life training and preparing for war, and is expected to be called up for in-camp training for at least twenty years after his Operationally Ready Date (ORD). In those two years, female and foreign youths his age would have gained a considerable advantage over him in terms of work experience and/or education in a tertiary institute. Their employers, further, need not worry about losing experienced and competent staff to the SAF every time an ICT cycle begins.

    Allow me to illustrate this difference. As an administrative support assistant, I work about 288 days a year, not including half- or full weekends when I do need to return to the office for work, and have to stay in camp during the working week. In that time, I am expected to do the work of at least two men, more often three, liaising with civilians and superiors, keeping track of dozens of pieces of paper as they move around Singapore, understand and tolerate the inner workings of the SAF’s online infrastructure, and other administrative work. For this, I earn an “allowance” of S$16.67 a day; I can only hope that this will one day increase to about S$20. Admittedly, this is only a rough guide; it is rather difficult to calculate an NSF’s allowance by day, because it is pro-rated.

    Now consider my friend. She is a temporary staff in her job description, but is effectively a clerk. She works from 8 to 5 on weekdays, just helps out whenever she is needed, and her job scope does not require her to effectively look after the needs of over a hundred people at the same time. She may take leave any time she chooses, and quit when she wants to. She also gets to enter university, and the working world, two years before I do. For all this, she is paid S$54.27 a day — over two and a half times of my maximum allowance.

    Of course, the difference in salary/allowance is not as dramatic as it appears to be. My meals in camp are free of charge; her meals are not. Unlike her, I can make transport, medical, dental and food claims to blunt the cost of making certain payments. I also need not pay for medical treatment at government hospitals and polyclinics. Most noticeably, I have a legal duty to my country; she does not.

    Moral duty of the State

    The State, too, has a duty to National Servicemen – a moral duty. It takes away the sons of Singapore, most of them against their will, and prepares and demands them to provide for the common defence. This unwilling sacrifice makes the burdens of service even heavier, and more acute. It goes against ethical principles of reciprocity to demand so much from servicemen, and giving so little in return — especially since many servicemen would not willingly serve their country in the military, as seen in the relatively few numbers of recruits who wish to sign on in every intake. The above-mentioned benefits do not completely discharge the State of its duties, for the above-mentioned reasons.

    The greatest complaint National Servicemen have about NS is that it is an artificial barrier to entry into tertiary education and jobs. NSFs must wait for two years before they can matriculate into universities; eligible females and foreigners may do so when the next term begins. Employers could well favour foreigners and local women to Singaporean men, because the last are obliged to turn up for in-camp training, which will disrupt work inside the company.

    Levelling the field

    The very least the Government can do to even the odds is to provide NSFs with an end-of-service gratuity. This gratuity will be paid in one lump sum, following an NSF’s ORD. The actual amount will be tied directly to his rank; vocation; rating in his Certificate of Service; participation in operations and exercises; and participation in national events such as the National Day Parade.

    For example, a full lieutenant in the Guards who has earned a double “Outstanding” rating may be entitled to $20,000, while a lance corporal who served as a clerk and has been rated as “good” may receive $5,000. The principle behind the gratuity is to allow the serviceman to make up for the two years he has lost to his peers, by helping to defray the costs of the first two years of higher education, making up for any difference in pay when he enters the work force, and so on. More importantly, it demonstrates to the serviceman that the SAF cares about the future of its servicemen, shoring up the faith of the soldier in the institution.

    In addition, it goes without saying that being a soldier is one of the more dangerous occupations in the world. Death and injury can come in many forms: a hostile bullet, an accidental fall, and everything and anything in between. Most soldiers around the world know and accept these risks. But not the average Singaporean soldier; he is a conscript, and would, if given a choice, most probably not face this danger.

    Yet the State will nevertheless place the trained children of Singapore on the frontlines, often without giving them a chance to object or a way to prevent a mobilisation. This much is understandable, because should Singapore go to war, Singapore’s survival is at stake. But asking NSFs to straddle the line of fire when diplomacy fails will redouble their existing burdens, and rightly so. Should the sons of Singapore perish in war, then who shall take care of their families? The answer is the State, through the Singapore Armed Forces. It is the only ethical answer, for it is the State that has sent them to die. Yet, all the SAF is obligated to provide are funeral wreaths and letters of condolences. Currently, it is up to the serviceman to take up life insurance, and pay for it from his own allowance.

    Mandatory life insurance for servicemen

    Because of this, I further propose that NSFs will be placed on a mandatory life insurance policy. Currently Aviva has a virtual monopoly on life insurance for National Servicemen, because they offer the best rates for soldiers who are wounded, maimed, or killed in the line of duty or in accidents. What the SAF can do is to place all NSFs on a basic life insurance policy with Aviva, and foot the bill. The policy will last for two years, because it covers the period of time in which an NSF is most likely to be injured, namely during training while serving his National Service. Servicemen who wish to extend the policy, or opt for premium plans, will make up the difference through their allowance. The policy may also be further amended to meet the contingencies of Operations Other than War, such as overseas humanitarian missions, In-Camp Training, and the outbreak of war.

    These, I believe, are just the bare minimum. More can be done. The families of servicemen may, for example, be awarded additional subsidies for health care, to compensate for any loss of income, real or potential. The cap of claims of all sorts may be raised. Allowances may be revised upwards, or perhaps even tied to a benchmark of certain jobs in the private sector. The State needs to understand that the average NSF is bearing a huge burden on his shoulders against his will; in a rich country like Singapore, it is not out of the question for the SAF to lighten this burden through financial schemes.

    Mindef is able

    Certainly the SAF should not be constrained by budget. For FY2008, the Ministry of Defence has been allocated $10.8 billion – which is one-third of the entire national budget. Those monies should be sufficient to fund the above-mentioned schemes, in addition to paying for the daily costs of running the military. In addition, the military has initiated cost-cutting measures, ranging from mandating the temperatures of air-conditioning units to bidding procedures for outside contractors. Should there still be not enough money, the Government can always dip into its budget surpluses and readjust the following year’s budget accordingly. The Government, after all, did run up a budget surplus of about 6.4 billion dollars for FY2007, and keeps boasting of its strong economic policies.

    Ultimately, it must be remembered that most NSFs do not have a reason to walk the fire for Singapore. They may fight for home, friends and family, but not for a country they are not rooted in. Given this mindset, it is the responsibility of the State to look after the citizens who might one day have to die for it. At the barest minimum, the SAF can help to even the playing field through end-of-service gratuities, and look after the needs of servicemen by introducing mandatory free life insurance schemes. The SAF could further expand this, by reviewing and improving the welfare scheme it has set aside for NSFs.

    After all, should the government not adequately compensate a conscript for his services, especially if unwillingly given, then the government should not count on that conscript to feel obligated to fight for it. Or even remain in Singapore.

  • cosmiclaws:

    quoted from (Worst on Wed, 8th Jul 2009 8:35 pm )
    What hurt most is this……

    As a Singaporean, you must fight and die for your country, but when you are in trouble does your country comes to your aid?

    There are so many cases of Singaporeans getting into trouble abroad but does our embassy help them at all? No, those good-for-nothing fellows in most of Singapore embassies abroad are not only good for nothing but would not even do anything to help. You can call them and they will tell you there is nothing they can do and would not even bother to send someone over to look into your situation. I do not care to point out all the cases but those who have lived abroad as long as I have would have come across many.

    Compared that to the US embassies, once a US citizen get into trouble, there will have someone look into your case immediately and even send someone over to come see you and see how they can help.

    Now, you know how it feels to be a Singaporean.

    I agreed with “worst”. Recently, a supermarket somewhere in singapore which i cannot say here. The security officer caught a man who is his 60s stealing 2 can of beers and put it into his pockets. He went to the check-out counter to pay but he is paying for a bottle of mineral water. Where is the 2 can of beers? It’s in his pockets. He was caught red-handed. He denied stealing,saying he forget to pay. What a joke. After the policemen came and interrogate him for few hrs but let him go in the end. Reason from police: He was a singapore pr, german expats businessmen and living in a bungalow and is rich. What sort of reasons is this??? They afraid of their embassy?Is it implying we are allowing rich foreigners to come over to singapore to commit crimes? Or is it trying to imply that rich people can commit crimes? Please enlighten me? Another scenarios: Same situation happened but it was a normal average singapore who is not rich but he is detained and handcuffs to police station. What kind of logic is this? There is no end to this as this world only pursue of money. What fairness is there to law? Law is created by humans and err is humans. In the end, humans will destroy itself,be it wars or pandemics caused by humans. Sorry if i offend anyone out there but i am stating my own opinions.

  • NSman:

    My ex-workmate is a M’sian from Johor, he is still a S’pore PR now even after serving his 2.5 yrs of NS and should have completed his ICTs by now.

    He has been offered many times to take up S’pore citizenship but each time he didn’t accept it.

    He just want to come here study, work and earn S$ and then go back to his Johor hometown to spend in RM$ and to retire!

    Where can born and bred S’pore citizens go when they retire? JB old folks home set up by MOH-KBW??

  • Ah Peh:

    Please don’t sing that army song, day in day out we sung that propaganda song during my NS. “To defend my home”, what home when the pap gov. can compulsory acquire your home and compensate you miserably. Worse, for some family, they don’t even compensate you a hdb flat after taking away your home and ask you to join the queue in purchasing a hdb flat. What country are you people talking about, when a person got no more home? I am even worse then a 3rd class citizen.

    And yes, what about “White Horse?” Why you people don’t comment on that? Is that term a taboo now?

  • Maj (NS) Singaporean:

    @Agape Xue on Mon, 13th Jul 2009 11:45 am

    I am a Singaporean.
    My NS duties depicts me as a SAF infantry officer – tasked as the battalion’s S3(Operations Officer). And when the “button is pushed”, there’s a high possibility that I would be obliged to take up my my field appt as the battalion’s CO (Commanding Officer).

    I loveD Singaporean with all my heart. I have sworn to defend this country till the depths of hell.

    Life’s experiences over the past decade have however, eroded my passion for this country. My eyes were pried open to witness the level of “decay” this country was forced to undergo, initiated and further reinforced by our incumbent present leaders. Ordinary Singaporeans were brushed aside with minimal regard (at best with a token’s worth of “goodwill” gesture/act) whereas foreigners and a selected minority local few were “awarded” privileged-classed benefits and attention.

    This country has effectively turned its back on its citizens, taking most of its citizens for granted and abusing them in every possible way.
    The patriotic few may disagreed with the above; but do you know that for all that your’re worth – you are just A NUMBER for the people at the top. Your concerns and worries are the least of their problems. You are NEVER the focus of these peoples’ lives – I know because I used to be one of “these people”.

    To “us”, YOU are EXPENDABLE. Retaining people like you wouldn’t benefit us much. losing you…. well, its a “marginal” loss which “we” can well afford. Your lives meant nothing to “us” – you owed everything you have to “us” – giving “us” your sacred vote/support is justified because “we” gave you your present day successes. YOU live to SERVE………”us”.

    15 years of the above have corrupted my soul – In the view of others, I would have being considered a successful individual – a captain of the industry; only God knows what a shallow shell I have become, I have sold my soul to the devil (or to the PAP incumbents…. anyway, what’s the difference?) and there’s no hope of salvation. I refuse however to sink further down the depths of hell, I want to redeem whatever’s left of my spirit and soul.

    I will still play the game – but with a different agenda; I want the best for my family. My present successes will put my family in good stead in Singapore, my connections will ensure my children, will be taken care of in the future and at least, have a good shot at the top 10%. But when the going gets tough, I will leave Singapore – this sad Island city which I once proudly called Home.

    Politics, unchallenged power and corruption (yes for the “surprised” Singaporeans, we DO have corruption – it is the political/business currency of the day; in fact its even worse than Malaysia since MSM has been forbidden to report about “us”) have driven Singapore’s sins so deep that it would be a miracle if we were able to pull ourselves up ever again. Oh… my dear countrymen, how you have been fooled; “we” have given YOU a good act which YOU all have so naively “believed” in.

    At the point of mobilization, I will not return; I will exercise every bit of influence, connections, power which money can buy to escape(with my family) from this island city – no, I am not a traitor. This country was already lost a long time ago, there is nothing left for me to betray ~ if only the ordinary Singaporeans will see what I have seen; you will no sooner realize that a huge woolen veil has been pulled over your eyes; blinding you from the obvious sad truths.

  • BryanT:

    Maj (NS) Singaporean,

    You sound very sad. Can you elaborate on the sentence, “if only the ordinary Singaporeans will see what I have seen; you will no sooner realize that a huge woolen veil has been pulled over your eyes; blinding you from the obvious sad truths.”

    Are you saying that Singaporeans are not able to see certain things, or that they are unwilling to see the obvious?

    Hope you can clarify. Thanks.

  • Ang Gu Nee:

    IF I am a malaysian chinese, I may follow my ex-colleague’s example.

    He is malaysian chinese. When student age, he came to singapore, to study. Got degree. Married a singaporean lady and stayed in singapore. He never converted to citizen of singapore, even after more than a decade or even 2.

    His reasons?

    Many heard his reasons before. He said, singapore offers equal opportunity. He did not take citizenship not because he was not offered one but as per what he said, there is no incentive enough for him to do so. He said this when working as vendor in a, how to put it, ‘high security clearance’ environment. He said this and even the top management there knows him and sort of regards him quite highly.

    He bought a flat in Bishan. He is PR. Has children here. He said his wife citizen enough for him liao. Many things can do. Works in large MNC. Never buys a car. Not sure about now.

  • Fairplayplease:

    @ Bryant t….you wrote…Are you saying that Singaporeans are not able to see certain things, or that they are unwilling to see the obvious?…

    Without Maj (NS) Singaporean or your invitation, I shall join the fun here in responding. This is a public forum.

    Since ANY conceivable item of news and information can come out in MSM and most of the time I suspect most of the time , the journalists themselves don’t know what they are publishing ( can they know all????????????????) can I ask you a few simple items if you know that these terms means in practical application.

    a) FASB mark-to-market accounting
    b) sword and shield in law
    c) off balance sheet financing
    d) shareholders’ derivative action
    e) hollow log accounting
    f) compelling apprehension

    These are all kindergarten stuff to me – if journalist writes on matters relating to any of these topics and completely and unknowingly misunderstood those concepts. Would you know, Bryant T of substance and myths?? If you don’t know at first glance, what would the average Singaporean knows that they were misled accidentally or deliberately??? Caterpillars???

    And to give you an example of even how “sophisticated” investors are misled… read this IF IT IS NOT BEYOND YOUR INTELLECT OF COMPREHENSION…(again these are kid’s stuff to me)

    http://blogs.barrons.com/stockstowatchtoday/

    I am giving you some free lessons of intelligence here. You should be grateful and not mourning rubbish on this blog.

    Read my blog to come on “Will the property burst” thread on this wayang blog (coming soon tonight) in response to Genghis interesting comments of contribution,..see if you can even trawl the basic. Otherwise just assume that you either lack the intellect or lost the plot or both.

  • Fairplayplease:

    Bryant T…Sorry, I wrote a little blog on how vile publishing con investors – taking from a local US newspaper source -Weyerhaeuser News quoted in Barron. Weyerhaeuser is a timber giant in US, too far across the ocean for a frog in a Singapore well to comprehend perhaps…why not try sometime nearer home of a publishing in Australian newspaper – a national daily below – see if anything can penetrate your genius of coconut head. This time is about wealth which I am you would be very interested…..GOLD….hope your eye-ball don’t fell out reading this stuff, it is NOT confusing as it is for general public in Australia..

    Read on

    http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/business/story/0,28124,25758010-16941,00.html

    If you got no talent, just admit so.

  • Ruben:

    Check this out. May not get posted here.

    http://www.malaysiakini.com/letters/107464

  • BryanT said: Are you saying that Singaporeans are not able to see certain things, or that they are unwilling to see the obvious?

    Allow me to provide the answer for Maj(NS) Singaporean if I may.

    By his posting, it is safe to assume that he is still in the system but his agenda has changed from serving his country, ie: Sinkapore to one of serving himself (which everyone in the famiLEE is doing).

    I was in the system, although not high up in the food chain (neither is a Maj in the army high), but certainly I can walk into my OC’s office without going thru his secretary or knocking or making an appointment. I lunch with CP, ACP, DCP and senior officers from the AGC, just to give you an idea of where I was.

    Anyway, I left the system more than a decade ago for the same very reason that he posted, which I quote: ‘I refuse however to sink further down the depths of hell, I want to redeem whatever’s left of my spirit and soul’.

    Most of us who are or were in system with a conscious would choose to leave if given the opportunity because the longer you are in the system, the longer you sell your soul to the devil and bury your conscious.

    And to reply to the question you asked, being ‘Are you saying that Singaporeans are not able to see certain things, or that they are unwilling to see the obvious?’

    The reply would be NO and YES. Its so plainly right before their very eyes, they can see it but choose to do nothing or they are simply turning the other way.

    To: Maj(NS) Singaporean, feel free to correct me if I am wrong.

  • BryanT:

    Fairplayplease,

    Firstly, please accept my gratitude for the free lesson in intelligence. As I mentioned before, I’m happy to learn something everyday.

    And no, indeed I do not understand those terms you mentioned. You are definitely way beyond many of us. As you said, “these are all kindergarten stuff” to you. Congrats for that wealth of knowledge you possess.

    And by the way, perhaps you belong to that group of elusive “elite” that people in many Sg online fora are trying to pin down. I suppose they have found the answer.

    Peace, fellow inverterbrates.

  • BryanT:

    XisD Tay,

    I agree with you – some people change their jobs because it’s not within their passion; other do so because they feel that it’s against their conscience. To each his own.

    But frankly, I have this feeling that the civil service is not the only place where people are forced to “sell their soul to the devil”. It’s not a monopoly.

    I believe the private sector has its share of devilish manifestations as well, even if it’s in a different form. I think it’s not called a “dog-eat-dog” world for good reasons.

    Perhaps the only safe haven is self-employment. But even there you can’t avoid the canines.

    And no, I have no need to give excuse for the civil service, and don’t intend to.

  • Fairplayplease:

    @Ruben on Tue, 14th Jul 2009 9:56 pm You wrote ..Check this out. May not get posted here.

    http://www.malaysiakini.com/letters/107464

    Well Ruben. You ARE WRONG. Wayang Party is ethical.

    Whilst I agree with the substance of contents in your weblink as meritorious of comparative comparison …that is Singapore well-being his ahead of Malaysia, I am a LOT less sanguine of our future long-term prospect – it is very troubling to me that Singapore has no land – everything we eat or use si either grown or mined and therefore, our survival depends on our wits, talent, and ability to integrate and merge with opportunities on the international stage in this globalised world. We cannot have MORONIC CATERPILLAR MINDS or myopic blindness to reality to be able to seize opportunities in a hurry and make NO BIG MISTAKES in strategic terms. Malaysia made very very BIG MISTAKE IN MIXING UP RACE POLITICS WITH ECONOMY and they still survive today. That is proof they got cushion of failures we cannot afford here.

    Having said that, I APPLAUD WAYANG PARTY giving us a speak your mind forum here away from the “sexy” soulless MSM and the Economist is no angel in this regard.

    Read this link below

    http://comment.chinadaily.com.cn/articlecmt.shtml?id=8403394

    I have, from my learning and experience derived from the University of Society, very little respect for MSM

  • EKP:

    all you frustrated army,ns,civil servants.do you know what ITS LIKE IN THE COPORATE WORLD OR CLIMBING THE CORPORATE LADDER???please post your comments after joining the world of illussion where stabbing one in the back and smiling like a chesire cat is the norm.as for business enterprise or self employed,when you stop collecting cpf & in turn pay,tell us about it.

  • randomnessinmind:

    You know…..having posted here for a while now I just remembered…wouldn’t it be better if we went a little back? Like when posts appear right after we make them, without the crappy moderation module where we probably get to reply to each other only once a day.

    Well this isn’t the only place I post at, and I’ve seen some people stop posting, but life was a little more fun when response were sometimes made every 10 mins. (I do post elsewhere, after all.

  • Ah Peh:

    I am a Singaporean, so what? I did extremely well in my degree, so what? My parents are Singaporean, I served NS, so what? Recently, I had an interview the interviewer is a so called foreign talent and his assiatance is also a foreign talent. I have a feeling that they have no intention of hiring me a Singaporean talent, they’re just going through the motion for management to see, however, during the selection process it will be one of their own kind a foreigner. The worse thing is, this is a GLC company, our own country’s business that doesn’t hire local talents but foreigners. Very sad.

  • Fairplayplease:

    Ah Peh, I feel your sense of grievances and injustice endured. With few exception, GLCs in 45 years of independence have NOT venured out of our shorelines and do good for this country.

    Instead they systemaically squeezed out the cultivation of local entrepreneurial cluster. And now, hearing that foreigners hired by GLC are practising the same oppression against the local born experienced skills like yourself is diabolical of consequences and outcome. Singaporeans need to ask themselves – what has this country become? A place reserved for only the self-selected elites and foreigners so neatly labelled “foreign talents” who are here temporary to serve the agenda and insidiously corrupted interest of the elite only? Is this what we call ‘STAND UP FOR SINGAPORE?”

    If this is what this place has fallen to, I might end up seeing myself as one and only one bearing arm in the battlefield in any war when every other previously loyal Singaporeans have deserted the flag. We need to inform our aspiring young coming of age into society, educate them to be politically savvy and not blindly loyal.

    If we cannot look after our survival, who will look after this little red dot???

  • randomnessinmind said:You know…..having posted here for a while now I just remembered…wouldn’t it be better if we went a little back? Like when posts appear right after we make them, without the crappy moderation module where we probably get to reply to each other only once a day.

    Well this isn’t the only place I post at, and I’ve seen some people stop posting, but life was a little more fun when response were sometimes made every 10 mins. (I do post elsewhere, after all.

    I agree with you on this. Its so frustrating to see posts of myself appearing only one day later and imagine the frustration when you just at that moment in time wanted to shout anbd swaer at a post which someone had made that really gets on your nerve!

    Anway, I am on the net almost 18 hours a day and had written to the admin to offer my time as a mod, “approving” postings but apparently, either I got the wrong email address (wayangparty@hotmail.com) or it went into the thrash folder. :)

  • admin:

    Hi x-ISD Tay,

    Thanks for your kind offer. We didn’t receive your email, probably it went to the junk file.

    Please email us again at wayangparty@hotmail.com.

  • Anonymous:

    if you are pretty well off in Singapore,
    you can also move over to Austrialia, new zealand ,USA and get a temporary resident and enjoy your life.

    the catch here is you must be pretty well off.

    Many malaysia PR work in singapore AS they have to leave the comfort house to find a jobs here. because no jobs is avalaible there.

    if you are young, venture outside of singapore,

    if you can make it, return or stay at your host country depend on you.

  • Ah Peh:

    Hi Fairplayplease,
    Thanks for feeling my plight, I have been asking around for reason why I am still jobless, once I asked a member of the so called pap elite, they said the Singapore systems does not practice nepotism, it could be the interviewer is looking for something or skill that you do not possess.

    But I am still very puzzled, why a Singaporean like me still am unemployed and all if not most of my foreign classmates already found jobs? Am I being choosy, how can one be choosy when there isn’t any offer at all?

    I then found out that some of these foreign students found work based on connections, they got to know their professors who is also a foreigner from the same country or same race. Then these professors have connections, friends or ex-students who are working in the GLC firm or some public organisation and they give them recommendations. I was thinking of doing that but I am of different race or nationality from these professors. There was one who did helped but I don’t think he is sincere, anyway, I when along with his recommendation but there is no reply.

    Why! I need to work and support my parents, can’t my country give me that little dignity to fulfil my filial piety to my parents and family, instead of having them worrying for me even after my NS and graduation from the university. I am very depressed and deeply sadden from my situation. I was once so naive and believed that the pap government is doing their best and good for this country, now I am so unsure of their course for Singapore.

  • Fairplayplease:

    @Ah Peh, I don’t want to sound patronising or moralising.If I did, you got my SINCERE APOLOGY upfront.

    You got a degree and some work experience -these are NOT lost. Any experience you get, you could find them in later life SURPRISINGLY useful. If you takes time = learning experience, someday in your later life you will recall this post and this conversation in this blog and celebrate in your life memory of experiences.

    Life is frequently filled with challenges and, I believe, often driven by circumstances. Leave the past behind and move on. Feeling down and worry is like seating on a rocking chair – rolls backward and forward and achieving nothing. If you can be mobile, and a little adventurous, how about getting out leaving this little red dot for a while and find some fresh (even polluted) air outside to discover new perspective and opportunity. Have you thought of going into teaching maybe English or other technical subject relevant to your fields of career and work experience in PRC. The distraction, if I may call it, may open up new horizon. It pays peanuts but you gain skills which may allow you to go into corporate training and that itself could give you new contacts and opportunities – transnational. At the same time, living abroad give you new experiences which future employers here might take to a liking.

    I chanced upon meeting a Singaporean who declined a teaching job in Shanghai with a Singapore-based educational group for nearly S$4.5K only because he felt the teaching hours were too long, leaving him too little time on his own to pursue his other career/business interests. I am sure teaching for him was a little “pastime” of no real career significance and intention. Being in China is the real thing for him – just buying time waiting to stumble on something good as he is bilingual. By moving out of Singapore, you expands your opportunity space substantially.I thought he was a tourist when we chat along Nanjing Lu in Shanghai but he was on a “touristic” career working legally in China.

    It is only a suggestion to you. Hope something will work out for you soon.

    Cheers

  • Bitter Singaporean:

    Is there a way for me to downgrade from Spore citizen to PR? I want to be Malaysian citizen and Spore PR too…

    I am an engineer. Over the past year, I have been squeezed out of my job by cheaper Chinese, Malaysian and Indian engineers. To them, $2000 is much when they remit back home. To me, I can’t even afford a HDB, as frugal as I try to be, because the foreigners keeps driving home prices up on a daily basis. To add insult to injury, more of the foreign graduates replacing me had their university fees paid by our very own Ministry of Education. These graduates were not only given free college education, they were even given a month allowance of few hundred dollars each. While I had to work part time to support my education in NUS, and I still remain in debt to my student loan. (BITTER LAUGH!!!!).

    I spent 2.5 years of my precious youth serving the SAF, during which I lost my first girlfriend during training. These foreigners were given PRs and citizenship in less than 2.5 years and they don’t even need to serve. If war breaks out, I have to protect 1/3 of the population fuilled with these people?? (Assuming they dun run away at the 1st sign of trouble??!!) SAF even sent me a letter threatening to fine me for going overseas without telling them…to attend a funeral of my uncle…(BITTER LAUGH!!!!). Hey, here’s an idea, why don’t I migrate to another country before migrating back. That will save me more time!

    I am working in odds jobs now 7 days a week. I am now almost 30 already. Inflation exceed my savings rate, and I find a home, marriage, kids and happy future beyond me. A simple illness or a year of unemployment could wipe me out. Yet the government is wondering why there are less marriages and births….(BITTER LAUGH!!!!)

    I bear no love to my country now. My country does not need to be attacked, it has already be invaded and taken over. Thanks PAP!

  • Fairplayplease:

    @ Bitter Singaporean..Greetings…Your plight and predicament is NOT hard to fathom and sympathise. A lot of things have gone badly wrong in this country in recent years but politicians and MSM prefer to look the other way in silence and bliss of pretend ignorance. You are so young, well-qualified and an engineer – wish I am that bright and this is NO leg pulling – but found yourself in such onerous circumstances. It is tragic and reading blogs elsewhere, I see complaints of local talents being displaced by foreigners or more euphemistically called “foreign talent” as if locals should be quietly labelled “local dumb” without intend to offend you. This is apalling result of INDISCRIMINATE RELAXATION OF MIGRATION RULES here without regards for social consequences for Singaporean-born. I have NOTHING against foreigner coming here to seek their fortune BUT THERE MUST BE LEVEL PLAYING FIELD because locals are stuck with the inequities of time and career costs of national service and enduring defence obligations until late into their career.

    If migration rules here make this a honey pot for temporary “foreign talent” to exploit local vulnerabilities, it will be glad exploited by foreigners. It is natural in a borderless world now.

    Australia also has migration policy but if foreigners are not committed to Australia, there Permanent Residency status gets revoked as reported for one Singapore dental couple. Those who are Australian PRs must spend at least 2 years living in the last 5 years before the permanent residency status is renewed. That is fair to Australians – they don’t want “passengers” of convenience on the transport to better welfare care and access of public facilities like medical, education, better living environment for those without PERSONAL COMMITMENT to share and contribute directly to their society.

    Why can’t we be the same? Why MUST SINGAPORE BE FOR FOREIGNERS FIRST and those native-born disadvantaged, used and caste aside as though it is past use-bye date except in national emergency of war needing blood on the battlefield to protect its sovereignty? It is COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS.

    Singapore should have new IMMIGRATION LAW that require those who have access to public funding support like education etc must elect (from the date of receipt of some public benefits) to take up citizenship or have their PR status revoked back to temporary residence. PRs have rights to buy into HDB without any commitment to this country of sharing and contribution – IT IS ABSURB AND MAKES A MOCKERY OF LOYALTY TO NATION AND FLAG. Of course we cannot forced foreign nationals to be conscripted for national service BUT WE CAN GET AROUND THIS BY FORCING AT LEAST THOSE WHO RECEIVED PUBLIC-FUNDED BENEFITS to become citizens and upon that, they must commit within 5 years elect any 2 years to perform national services like us.

    EQUAL LOAD OF RESPONSIBILITY FOR EQUAL RECEIPT OF NATIONALLY DISTRIBUTED BENEFITS. PR has also subsidized medical benefits and if they lose their PR status, they have to sell their HDB if they lose their residency rights to remain in Singapore, lost their medical subsidy as well.

    That way, we can get a level playing field. IT CANNOT BE SINGAPOREANS MAKING CONTRIBUTIONS, MAKING ALL THE SACRIFICE FOR THE COMFORT AND FORTUNE OF FOREIGN PRs only – a one way sacrifice and disadvantage. It makes PR status become the obscenity of what one blogger called ‘PREVILEGED RESIDENCE”

    But is this going to change anytime soon? IT IS PROBABLY EASIER FOR ME TO GET ELECTED TO THE NEXT POPE IN THE CATHOLIC WORLD THAN THIS TO HAPPEN…. MY RELIGIION HAPPENS TO BE $$$$ AND CENTS.

    Why is this pessimism?? Look at the 9 recently selected MPs, how many ( if any) are from strong legal background who can debate the law robustly and introduce a private members bills for consideration?? I am really so disapointed that opening the door wider is NOT OPENING THE DOOR for SERIOUS CHANGE for the good of my country men.

    This is very very wrong!! Singapore and Singaporeans must come first.

  • Fairplayplease:

    At the minimum, those PRs who received educational or other benefits like subsidised health benefits MUST ELECT WITHIN 5 YEARS to take up citizenship and commitment to defend Singapore. If they are unwilling, they STILL HAVE THE RIGHT AND OPTION TO REFUSE these benefits paid out of our public funds. There are a lot of Singaporean born who sacrificed for this nation needing assistance.

    They cannot take public money and dump this country to the dogs!! It is just not right. STAND UP FOR SINGAPORE NEEDS TO HAVE SUBSTANCE OF TRUTH IN THOSE 4 WORDS, do anyone disagree??

  • sangui:

    Bitter Singaporean,

    Your bitterness is very much understandable. It does not make sense that our tax monies are being used for purposes and foreigners that put ourselves personally in a disadvantageous position.

    It’s gone to to the extent that we are seen to be pandering to the foreigners. And to add oil to fire, the foreigners seem to realise this and maintain an attitude as if they are sniggering at us. Or it is just my self-consciousness….

    My opinion is that that we still need NS, unfortunately. But to inadvertantly make those having to serve NS lose out some significantly is wrong. The token recognition in the form of tax relief and rebates that NSmen get is laughable and hardly compensate for the losses.

    Yes, I agree with your last sentence. While the SAF is may be useful as a deterrence against some specific threats, the Singaporeans are already threatened on the home soil. The battle is being lost within the hearts of the people. More loyalty will be lost and more will decide to ship out.

  • Kevin Ng:

    Here’s a story about a husband and wife:

    Husband: Why are you inviting so many men from outside into our house?

    Wife: I need them to pump labor into me and give me money.

    Husband: But I work hard to do that too.

    Wife: That is no good. We need better seeds from more talented people outside. Yours is not good enough. These outside men are smart graduates, strong construction workers, handsome road sweepers, young and vibrant students. They are better than you.

    Husband: I am your faithful husband. I love you, lived with you, protect you, stay with you in times of trouble. Doesn’t that count for something? Those men will come and go. Once they see someone better, they will leave you.

    Wife: Since some of them will leave eventually, I must invite even more men to our house. I need them. If more men come, maybe, just maybe, if I am lucky, some will stay

    Husband: I can fill our house will happy little ones too. Give me a chance.

    Wife: You? That will take too long. Even if we have kids, when can they work to give me money. The men from outside are different, they can work and pay me lots and lots of money immediately. When they grow old, they will leave our house and we don’t need to even support them. On the other hand, we need to support our little ones when they age and are too old to be productive.

    Husband: Trust me. Life will be better. Don’t invite these men over. I will work hard, and we can afford a nice room in our house if we save for 8-10 years.

    Wife: It is no use. By the time you save up, the room prices would be much much higher. Only the men from outside can afford to pay for rooms in our house…you cannot.

    Husband: Do you still love me?

    Wife: Stay on if you want. It is better you leave. Go to another house. I don’t care. I doubt other houses would even want you. There’s the doorbell……HELLO!!! WELCOME !!! PLS COME INSIDE ME!!

  • Kevin Ng, you have correctly depicted the exact mentality and thoughts and modus operandi of the famiLEE.

    This is exactly what they are planning for and what they wanted.

  • Kevin Ng ... let me tell your anecdote with another story ...:

    A divorced father of a 5 year old son was carying his aged and sicj motgher on his back and walking out of his house (not home as it is made up of family). Son ask, “Papa where are bringing grandma”? “Oh, to somewhere far away”? replied papa. “Why papa” asked son. “Well, yiour grandma ia old and useless, so I thought it is better to take her to somewhere, where she’ll not be a burden to you and me you see”! But papa, can I follow you then”? You are and small child my son. And the way if far. Better yuou styay home. But why do you want to follow”? 5 years old son, “Papa, so that WHEN YOU ARE OLD AND USELESS TOO, THEN I WILL KNOW WHERE TO BRING YOU TO”!!! his father put down his mother into her bed!!!

    How DOES THIS strike a note with you??? Please share!!!

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